She's feeding RevElly a straight line.
Panel 1: She starts off by asking if RetConnie has found a Sig-O yet. RevElly says that she hasn't and that she should stop looking.
Panel 2: Relationships happen when they happen, you see. Actually doing something about your life leaves you frustrated and upset so it's best to be passive and have things thrust in your lap.
Panel 3: AnnePrime calls shenanigans on this. It's human nature to want to look. If you're lonely, you automatically check people out.
Panel 4: This gives RevElly an in to mock her "friend" by asking if she herself is checking people out. After all, with NeoSteve not "There For Her", she's obviously lonely so it's only right if a judgmental nit with her hair in a ponytail check to see if she's checking.
Summary: Elly Patterson Must Die.