In many posts here, and in many fan "continuations" that are also posted here (the monthly letters storyline, the new Liographies) certain posters seem to have a rather negative opinion of Marian Richards. (Not Ursula Ridgway, Marian Richards.) That she was a tough, unloving, unforgiving, even emotionally abusive parent to Elly.
But much of that (to the best of my memory) doesn't really seem to be supported in the strips themselves. Marian seems to be shown as a loving mother and grandmother whom Elly looked up to. There are the usual jokes entailing an adult child rolling her eyes at her mother's occasional criticisms, but that really doesn't seem to be any more than the usual sort of conflicts a mother often has with an adult child, nothing abusive or nasty about it.
The biography of Marian (posted shortly after the reboot) did reveal that Marian took on most of the discipline with the children at first because Jim was too busy being the "fun dad", but again, that seems to be a dynamic that occurs often, it didn't seem to be anything more than the usual discipline of a misbehaving kid, and she and Jim eventually worked things out and developed a fairer way of doing things.
Perhaps opinions of Marian may be tainted by what we later came to know about Ursula (if, indeed, it was true, or at least non-exaggerated). But Marian Richards is a very different character from Ursula Ridgway--by Lynn's own admission.
So where does the negativity towards Marian come from?